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Wm.Oscar Woodrow Peterson

Wm.Oscar Woodrow Peterson
Peterson Heritage

Arthur Peterson PhD

Arthur Peterson PhD
Uncle Art Gifts True Humanatarian

Thursday, February 23, 2017

Dr.LenardPetersonLegacyviaGrandaughterCharlotteHearts

"The mind thinks of everything you can lose.
The heart thinks of everything you can give, and
The soul thinks of everything you are."

-Neale Donald Walsch
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DISCLAIMER  PETERSON LEGACY LIVES ON VIA HERITAGE CHARLOTTES HEARTS IS THE GRAND DAUGHTER OF DR. LENARD PETERSON OUR DAD WILLIAM O PETERSON OLDEST BROTHER FROM MORA MN. CANCER SURVIVORS CHARS WRITINGS ARE SPIRITUAL FOR ALL.

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http://charlottessoul.us10.list-manage.com/track/click?u=fb671f3a00402476d74afa792&id=ba871c706e&e=d995546bfaWhen you love an addict or someone with Borderline Personality Disorder, your God-given emotions are taken captive. Not only does addiction invalidate your truth, but it deceives others to turn against you too.
Codependents remain hopeful that things will change. Meanwhile, our emotions become steadily numb. Better not to feel anything at all, then to live with the doubt that our feelings are unsubstantiated.
In my previous marriage, I surrendered the emotion of excitement. If something good happened, I could enjoy it, but the pain of looking forward to an event would be too crushing when it fell short of my already low expectations.
I remember the final days of my previous marriage where toxicity ruled. Though I had tried to avoid the pain of unmet expectations, I could never actually protect myself adequately.
On my birthday, I hoped to hear “Happy Birthday.”  As the day passed without my ex-husband acknowledging it, I eventually fell into tears. He didn’t forget it was my birthday; he could not celebrate me. I still didn’t understand that yet; I expected something that wasn’t possible.
When I wrote my first book, I again had unrealistic expectations. The sturdy box that authors love so much arrived. I was alone when I carefully sliced the packing tape and revealed the stacks of books that I had authored. I screamed like crazy with my own excitement.  When my ex-husband got home, he saw the box, and he didn’t say a thing.
“Did you see? I wrote a book.” “Yep.”
There was no celebration whatsoever. What should have been the greatest accomplishment in my life, came and went without so much as a congratulatory smile.
 
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